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Ana WithAFamilyNameTooHardToPron RSS / 03.02.2010. u 06:44


Calebasse, Haiti (CNN)
 -- Lelly Laurentus thought he was doing the right thing when he handed his two young children over to an American woman who promised to take them to a better place.

Laura Silsby, a member of Idaho-based New Life Children's Refuge, had given him a flyer from her charity saying that it wanted to help "children who have lost their mother and father in the earthquake or have no one to love and care for them."

She promised schooling, soccer fields and even a swimming pool. She told Laurentus that she had government permission to carry out her plan, he said.

Laurentus loved his girls. They were everything to him, he said. But he also thought of his own life -- he dropped out of school at 15 and worked two jobs to put food on the table.

In the devastating January 12 earthquake, he lost the meager home he had sitting on a hillside in Calebasse.

"I can't stand that they were suffering here," Laurentus said. "I had confidence in the Americans. I trusted them."

So last Thursday night, when Silsby came with a bus, he placed his girls, Soraya, 4, and Leila, 5, on two seats towards the front. He didn't pack any of their things, he said. Not even their teddy bear. The American woman had supplied bags filled with clothes, toys and snacks.

"Will you remember me?" he asked the young girls, who could not, by his own admission, comprehend what was happening.

Then he watched them drive off, with 18 other children from the village.

But the girls never made it out of Haiti.

penhaul.haiti.americans.det.cnn.640x360.jpgVideo: Americans accused of trafficking
penhaul.haiti.intv.bellerive.cnn.640x360.jpgVideo: Haiti PM on detained Americans
penhaul.arrested.americans.cnn.640x360.jpgVideo: Child trafficking arrests
lkl.haiti.kids.cnn.640x360.jpgVideo: Americans taking Haitian kids?

Silsby and nine other American Baptist missionaries from Idaho, Kansas and Texas were arrested at the border with the Dominican Republic last Friday and detained on charges of illegally trying to take 33 children -- the 20 from Calebasse and 13 others -- out of the country.

They are being held in a jail in Port-au-Prince, and members of the group described conditions to CNN as sparse but said they are getting sufficient amounts of food and water.

U.S. officials have been given unlimited consular access to the Americans and U.S. and Haitian authorities are "working to try to ascertain what happened [and] the motive behind these people, said P.J. Crowley, a spokesman for the State Department, on Monday.

"Clearly there are questions about procedure as to whether they had the appropriate paperwork to move the children," he said.

Crowley said the group was scheduled to appear before a Haitian judge Monday afternoon, but that hearing apparently didn't happen.

A hearing for the group will be held Tuesday at 10 a.m., according to Haitian Information Minister Marie Laurence Lassegue, who said the group will be provided with a professional interpreter.

The missionaries say they were just trying to help the children leave tragedy behind and start life anew.

"We believe we've been charged very falsely with trafficking which is the furthest possible extreme," Silsby, whose group describes itself as a Christian ministry dedicated to rescuing orphaned, abandoned or impoverished Haitian and Dominican children, told CNN Monday. "We literally gave up everything and used up our own income to help these children and by no means [are we] part of that horrendous practice."

Clint Henry, senior pastor at Central Valley Baptist Church in Meridian, Idaho, a church attended by many of the group's members, reiterated that point saying the group's intentions were "upright and pure."

"The intention was simply to go down and try to be an aid in ministering to children that had been orphaned in the quake," Henry said. "It was our intention to be part of a new orphanage. The decision was made that we could house those children in the temporary sites."

But the incident has focused the spotlight on the issue of orphans in Haiti, where aid groups say the quake left tens of thousands of children without anyone to care for them.

The government has accused the American missionaries ofkidnapping and is investigating the incident before releasing the children back to their families.

"The children certainly were not fully willing to go, because in some cases, from what I heard, they were asking for their parents, they wanted to return to their parents," Prime Minister Jean-Max Bellerive told CNN.

Haiti's government requires documentation stating approval for children to exit the country. Silsby acknowledged that she had none.

"They really didn't have any paperwork and this is probably a misunderstanding on my part but I did not really know they would be required," she said.

On Monday, Information Minister Lassegue appealed to Haitians to not give up their children to strangers.

"We're talking about people who are coming to countries in distress, after a hurricane, after a tsunami, after an earthquake," she said. "You will never see the children again."

The United States has already expressed concern over the fate of vulnerable orphans and the potential for child trafficking.

Laurentus said he first heard of Silsby through another Calebasse resident, Isaac Adrien, who was working at a Port-au-Prince Christian school.

Adrien said he met Silsby at the school. She asked him whether he knew of people who had suffered in the quake and needed help. Adrien thought of his own community.

Last Thursday, Adrien took her up on an hour-plus drive up to Calebasse, where clouds touch land and people live a simple farming life.

"All the schools are closed here," Adrien said. "I thought it would be a good idea to send the children away."

Silsby assured the residents of Calebasse that she would stay in touch with them, Laurentus said. And that they would be able to see the children whenever they wanted.

Silsby's group told CNN they were going to house the children in a converted hotel in the Dominican Republic.

But without proper documentation, Silsby and the other missionaries were turned away by Haitian police at the border.

"They wouldn't listen to her," Adrien said about Silsby. "She was crying."

Adrien said the 33 children were forced to sleep outside the police station Friday night before Haitian authorities placed them in the care of SOS Children's Villages in Port-au-Prince.

Laurentus said he bore no ill-will toward the Americans; that he still trusted them.

But he wants his girls back home.

As did Adrienne Paulime, who put her 10-year-old daughter Benatide on the bus last Thursday.

"We gave her to the Americans so she could have a better life," said Paulime, wiping her eyes dry.

Benatide's brother Alain Paulime said he received a phone call last Friday from a woman at SOS orphanage. She said his kid sister was crying.

"Can you come pick me up?" Benatide asked Alain.

Paulime said he was anxious to let the orphanage know that Benatide did not belong there. She had a family.

Monday, Alain Paulime and his sister Carline Paulime joined Laurentus in the long trek down the mountain into the crowded capital.

"I want them back home," Laurentus said.

But in the end, they were forced to leave empty-handed, without even seeing them.

The children were traumatized, said George Willeit, head of SOS Children's Villages.

"The emotional security of the kids is very unstable at the moment," he said.

Many of them did not think they would ever see their parents again. He said he would not allow a visit now for fear of raising the children's expectations.

They would have to wait to go home, until the investigation is over.



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leeanna leeanna 09:51 03.02.2010

čudno

nekoliko dana posle zemljotresa na haitiju, kada je iz celog sveta krenula pomoć i "pomoć" u saniranju katastrofe, pročitala sam da su UN zabranile da deca koja su (zbog zemljotresa) ostala bez roditelja, napuštaju haiti po osnovu usvajanja. upravo da bi se predupredila zloupotreba koju navodiš.privremeno su čak obustavljene i postojeće procedure usvajanja, osim u slučaju ako su iste u završnoj fazi, odnosno da su pre zemljotresa već određeni konkretni usvojioci.
naomi klajn u knjizi "doktrina šoka" odlično analizira zloupotrebu privremenog šoka stanovništva, kao posledice prirodnih ili društvenih (namerno izazavanih) katastrofa, koji se koristi za legalno etabliranje raznih vidova eksploatacije (a koje se, u nekim slučajevima, u startu ne prepoznaju na taj način). nažalost, i ovog puta... "pas laje-karavani prolaze".

Re: čudno

indeed
Milutin Milošević Milutin Milošević 10:56 03.02.2010

Konfuzija jedna opšta ...

... najbolja za manipulacije. Čak i da su imali najbolje namere, lovili su u mutnom.

Ovo na kraju o sadašnjem tretmanu dece mi izgleda sasvim čudno.

Re: Konfuzija jedna opšta ...

lov u mutnom.
haos je idealna prilika za profit. to je ponekad posledica konfuzije i ljudske nesposobnosti da rasudjuje pod pritiskom, ali mnogo cesce vrlo svesne licne koristi.
yu1bcd yu1bcd 17:15 03.02.2010

Re: Konfuzija jedna opšta ...

Slična je situacija sa medicinom jer ljudi teško razumno rasuđuju od straha pred smrću! Od religije do alternativaca preko homeopatije i akupunkture do farmaceutske industrije i konačno NHS. Naravno je sve to za moralnu osudu baš kao i pohotljivi kapitalistički bankari...

Re: Konfuzija jedna opšta ...

istina je da strah od smrti pomucuje racionalno razmisljanje, ali ne bih bas poredila NHS sa child trafficking-om i stavljala u isti kos.
yu1bcd yu1bcd 12:06 04.02.2010

Re: Konfuzija jedna opšta ...

Naravno, mi to radimo u belim rukavicama kao Tony Blair sa Irakom...

Secam se jednog tvog dobrog clanka o mentoru koji je unapred kalkulisao troskove. Kod nas je recimo PST moguc svake trece godine.

Dugo nije bilo priloga pa sam mislio da se vec dogodilo iseljenje
Aleksandar Stosic Aleksandar Stosic 13:10 03.02.2010

ljudi sada se uopste ne zezam

Da li moze neko da mi kaze nesto u vezi usvajanja te dece s Haitija. Ja sam nesto pokusao da izguglujem, ali osim clanaka o child trafickingu nisam mogao da dodjem do bilo kakve informacije na tu temu. Zivo smo zainteresovani za usvajanje deteta iz Haitija.
sanja_idf sanja_idf 16:52 03.02.2010

Re: ljudi sada se uopste ne zezam

Da li moze neko da mi kaze nesto u vezi usvajanja te dece s Haitija. Ja sam nesto pokusao da izguglujem, ali osim clanaka o child trafickingu nisam mogao da dodjem do bilo kakve informacije na tu temu. Zivo smo zainteresovani za usvajanje deteta iz Haitija.


Zemlje EU vec dugo godinama regularno vode procese usvajanja dece sa Haitija kao i drugih ugrozenih krajeva... recimo, mogu ti reci preciznu informaciju vezanu za procese vezane za Francusku. Postoji oko 900 procesa, aktivnih, zapocetih mnogo pre zemljotresa. Slicne su sifre u Nemackoj. U Francusku je doslo oko 40toro dece ciji su procesi usvajanja bili pri kraju, te su se i pozurili. Pre par dana u Parizu je bio odrzan proces buducih roditelja koji zele da ubrzaju te procese ali Quai d'Orsay, dakle Vlada francuske odbija i predostroznosti da ubrza te procese cak iako je vecina tih ljudi vec posetila Haiti i vec stupila u kontakt sa decom koju ce usvojiti. Cak i deca koja su stigla u FR nece biti odmah stavljena u svoje porodice vec smestena u hraniteljske porodice, kako bi se proces i na kraju, provera tih roditelja, ispostovala.

Problem zapadnog sveta , taj nazovi altruisticki poriv, ovde (u FR) se polako stisava jer je Vlada decidirana i zeli da legalno i temeljno, kao i pre zemljotresa, tu decu zaista smesti u porodice koje mogu da pruze adekvatnu sta-god, je li...

Dakle problem nije u tome sto se neko naprasno zainteresovao za decu sa Haitija. Sva ta deca, a sada i deca koja su ostala bez roditelja, su u procesu. Mnogi se boje da ce deca biti zrtve gladi i bolesti i zbog toga zele da UBRZAJU proces usvajanja, ali ne i da ga tek zapocnu. Ili je tako barem kada govorimo o EU. Sto se tice Amerikanaca dobrodusnih... mislim da je ocigledno. Na kraju, profiteri su profiteri, a cak i da to nije slucaj sa ovim baptistima, logicno je da vlasti Haitija ne dozvole da deca tek tako bez dokumentacije napustaju zemlju. Humanitarna pomoc nije dovoljna, ali... prevencija trafickinga je bitnija, cini mi se. Dete koje ce par meseci trpeti, makar se i razbolelo, bolje je proslo od onog koje ce biti zrtva trafickinga i vuci traume celog zivota. Traume zlostavljanja koje se ne brisu tako lako...

Podrska za EU kada su ova deca u pitanju.

Re: ljudi sada se uopste ne zezam

ono sto je meni zastrasujuce da ovud decu cesto roditelji "daju" strancima vrlo neformalno, bez provere, u nadi da ce dete bolje ziveti negde drugo, sa nekim drugim
Aleksandar Stosic Aleksandar Stosic 21:30 03.02.2010

Re: ljudi sada se uopste ne zezam

sanja_idf

hvala na informacija. mene zanima tehnicka procedura, kome se obratiti, da li maticnoj zemlju u kojoj zivis, ili nekoj organizaciji na Haitiju, ili nekom trecem. I konacno, nemamo, altruisticki poriv :)

Re: ljudi sada se uopste ne zezam

Mislim da treba da se obratis zvanicnim ustanovama haitija, jer bi dete morao da usvojis po lokalnom zakonu zemlje ciji je drzavljanin I u kojoj zivi
korto malteze korto malteze 01:47 06.02.2010

Re: ljudi sada se uopste ne zezam

I ja sam se raspitivao o usvajanju deteta sa Haitija. U Nemackoj to ide preko centralnih kancelarija za usvajanje. Birokratija nije nista manja, naprotiv, sve traje duze. Jedino je starosna granica povecana, razlika izmedju roditelja i usvojenog deteta mora biti manja od 40 godina, inace je manja. Pretpostavljam da su komplikacije neophodne, upravo da bi se izbegle nejasne situacije i lov u mutnom. Zamisli da ti jednog dana stigne pismo od ipak prezivelih roditelja, greskom registrovanih kao nastradali.
Sto se tice misionara, pre verujem u njihove dobre namere i nedostatak smisla za realnost. Ne verujem da imaju bilo sta sa traffickingom, osim sto nisu obezbedili dokumenta, a pokusali su da prebace decu iz drzave. Ako nisam u pravu, dozvolicu sebi da budem naivan jos ovaj put.
korto malteze korto malteze 02:22 06.02.2010

Re: ljudi sada se uopste ne zezam

Ana, zanimljiv post, kao i uvek.
Verovatno roditelji ne pitaju mnogo iz dva razloga - da bi sve islo brze i jer Haicani mnogo vise veruju na rec.
Inace, ne verujem da bih bio u stanju da svoje dete nekome predam, osim ako bi bilo u sasvim izvesnoj zivotnoj opasnosti ukoliko ostane sa mnom. Dva posla, tri posla, n+1 poslova, nema veze.

Re: ljudi sada se uopste ne zezam

korto malteze
I ja sam se raspitivao o usvajanju deteta sa Haitija. U Nemackoj to ide preko centralnih kancelarija za usvajanje. Birokratija nije nista manja, naprotiv, sve traje duze. Jedino je starosna granica povecana, razlika izmedju roditelja i usvojenog deteta mora biti manja od 40 godina, inace je manja. Pretpostavljam da su komplikacije neophodne, upravo da bi se izbegle nejasne situacije i lov u mutnom. Zamisli da ti jednog dana stigne pismo od ipak prezivelih roditelja, greskom registrovanih kao nastradali.
Sto se tice misionara, pre verujem u njihove dobre namere i nedostatak smisla za realnost. Ne verujem da imaju bilo sta sa traffickingom, osim sto nisu obezbedili dokumenta, a pokusali su da prebace decu iz drzave. Ako nisam u pravu, dozvolicu sebi da budem naivan jos ovaj put.


po mom misljenju, naivni ljudi sa mnogo emocija na temu su cesto oruzje u rukama onih koji od situacije svesno profitiraju tako sto svoje ilegalne poslove provlace kroz formu humanitarnih organizacija.

To smo videli u ratu u bivsoj nam velikoj zemlji, protestima protiv globalnog zagrevanja koji su podsticani od stane vlasnika novih tehnologija, raznih kampanja protiv kine kao surove i nehumane zemlje iz prostog razlog sto se zapadni kulturni obrazac smatra superiornijim , a kina ga ugrozava, i gde sve ne.

situacija sa decom haitija je samo vrlo konkretan primer u kom su zrtve deca, sto ga cini jos strasnijim.

Verovatno roditelji ne pitaju mnogo iz dva razloga - da bi sve islo brze i jer Haicani mnogo vise veruju na rec.
Inace, ne verujem da bih bio u stanju da svoje dete nekome predam, osim ako bi bilo u sasvim izvesnoj zivotnoj opasnosti ukoliko ostane sa mnom. Dva posla, tri posla, n+1 poslova, nema veze.


ja sam sigurna da ne bih bila u stanju da svoje dete nekom dam. uvek bih se trudila da se ja izborim za njegov bolji zivot. situacija nije za poredjenje, ali to je jedan od razloga zasto sam otisla iz zemlje gde i je zivot na licnom planu bio prilicno udoban, u sasvim neizvesnu avanturu preseljenja u kojoj su ozbiljne prepreke do odgovarajuceg kvaliteta zivota trajala min 3-4 godine.

Ana, zanimljiv post, kao i uvek.

drago mi je da ti je zanimljiv. iz moje perspektive deluje da ljudi sve manje nalaze razlog da komentarisu na mom i blogovoma koji su meni inspirativni.
drug.clan drug.clan 14:15 03.02.2010

rade ljudi svoj posao

strasno je sta se tamo radi i sve pod plastom humanitarne pomoci, od okupacije, preko politickih cistki, do trgovine decom

i naravno sve uz blagoslov administracije prvog "crnog" predsednika ....

I mala deca iz medija su saznala da je svako usvajanje i odvodjenje dece sa haitija strogo zabranjeno posle zemljotresa, osim humanih i naivnih misionarki ....

Arhiva

   

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